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Developing Inner Strength

Developing Inner Strength We can't control how other people act, we can only influence how we respond to it. Because of this, it is best to learn how to develop a sense of inner strength - an inner love and well being for yourself, independent of other people's actions. Now, this is easier said than done, because we often (and accidentally) allow our well being to be in the hands of someone else rather than ourself. It is time that we remind ourselves that our well being can come from ourself instead of someone else. Here's how to do this: When you are feeling down because of what someone else decides to do (i.e. a significant other or family member), remind yourself that you only have control over what you think. Choose to think highly of yourself. Remember that you are always doing the best you can with the resources you have. Convince yourself that you are doing your best all the time, and choose to love yourself for it. Tell yourself, "I love myself", ...
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Alchemy

This post will be devoted specifically to alchemizing, or healing, stuck energy in our bodies. We all have an energetic center - this is the spot where our consciousness emanates from. It contains an infinite amount of Love and by utilizing it, can heal whatever energy or ailment in your body that is bothering you.  The trick with alchemy is to first find your center, then beam energy from your center to the spots that need the healing. What this feels like in your body is you loving yourself. It will feel like you are sending love to the spots that need the attention. Here is the visual of what I am talking about: The iceberg in this picture represents the pain that you feel in your body that needs healing. An iceberg is a great representation for emotion because we can often only feel the top of the iceberg. Emotions are multi-dimensional, and the bottom of the iceberg represents how much healing needs to be done that we are not yet aware of. Healing what we can  f...

Healing Your Emotions

To heal your emotions:  Sit quietly with yourself and notice where in your body that the emotion is affecting you. You will then become aware of the pain that you are feeling. To heal this pain, focus on the spot of this pain and keep your attention there. Eventually, as you feel this pain and keep your attention on it, it will go away. Also make sure that you aren't thinking anything toward the emotion. Be with it like you would be with a small child who is crying. Do not judge it or make it wrong, it just needs your attention and it will get better. Your attention itself is literally like a light, and when you place it inside of these emotions in your body, the light melts away the emotion like fire would melt ice. Rinse and repeat whenever painful emotions come up until you feel better :)

How to Give Yourself the Love You Need to Feel Better

After going through some incredibly deep pain, I decided to spend what ended up being a year in isolation figuring out how to feel better. What I learned is that we have the power to feel better, all on our own - Without needing anything from any other person, relationship, or taking medication. I healed myself with no doctors or therapists or external treatment. While talking to someone can definitely help, we do have the power to feel better on our own, and that is what I am going to describe here. Truly feeling better comes from you meeting your own emotional needs. This is done in two steps: Loving yourself and reframing the beliefs in your mind. Loving yourself: If you aren't sure how to give yourself the love that you need, start by sitting quietly with yourself. Focus on someone else that you love and send them the energy of love (from afar) that you feel for them. You should feel the love emanating from yourself to that person you love. Sometimes it is first easier to...